when is anniversary?

once on the radio, the DJ were talking about wedding anniversary, then it strike me which date is our anniversary? our rom or customary date? 

 

although its still early for me to think of anniversary but we must decide and agree on which date to celebrate. if not, i may think that rom date is our anniversary but darling think that customary date is our anniversary, then we will be upset when the date comes and nothing is planned. so i ask my darling, which one do we celebrate or both? his answer is we celebrate both loh, then i told him good; which means i will have 2 presents. heheh.... 

 

come to think of it, if we do celebrate both date then how do we called it to differentiate. 1st rom anniversary and 1st wedding anniversary? doesn't it sound a bit weird? hmmmmm, i think we better come up with some nice names for it.